21 Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

What is one memory of us you go back to when you need a smile?

What was your honest first impression of me?

What is something I do that makes you feel safest?

When did you first realize I was more than a friend?

What is your favorite thing about the way we talk things out?

What is one thing you want to do together every single month?

If our story was a movie, what scene would open it?

How have you grown since we started dating?

What is your favorite nickname for me, and why?

What is one thing you tell your friends about me that makes them roll their eyes?

What is the most yourself you have ever felt with me?

What is something you want me to never forget about you?

What is one thing of mine you love wearing or borrowing?

What holiday do you want us to make unreasonably magical together?

What is the most fun we have ever had on a date?

What is a tiny thing I do that you pretend to be annoyed by but secretly love?

What is one thing you wish I would say to you more often?

What is your favorite picture of yourself that I took?

What is something you hesitated to share with me at first?

What do you think keeps us strong when things get busy?

What is something you are proud of that you downplay?

What is a worry I could help you carry right now?

What is the best choice you made for yourself this year?

What is something you loved as a kid that you still love?

What is a compliment that stuck with you for years?

What is something you are better at than you admit?

What is one thing that instantly brightens a bad day?

What is one thing that drains you the fastest?

What is a fear you would love to leave behind this year?

What is something you believe in that took courage to believe?

What is the hardest season you have ever pushed through?

What is one thing you wish you had known at eighteen?

What is a moment that quietly changed your life?

What is something you are becoming more confident about?

What is the most misread thing about you?

What is something you need more of from me?

What is something you need less of from me?

What is a small gesture that always makes you feel seen?

What is the best advice you have ever taken?

What is one thing you want people to remember about you?

What is one destination you have mentally already packed for?

What would our dream home have that no other home has?

What is one goal you want us to hit together this year?

What does a perfect slow morning with me look like to you?

What is one thing you want to create with me someday?

What milestone are you most excited for us to celebrate next?

How do you imagine a random Wednesday with me in ten years?

What is one hobby you want us to share?

What is something you cannot wait to show me how to do?

What is something you want me to help you learn?

What is one couple tradition you are jealous of and want for us?

What is one rule you think keeps couples close?

What is something you want us to do less of?

What is something you want us to do more of?

What is one thing about us you would never trade?

What is the most romantic thing you daydream about me doing?

What is one thing you wish you had said sooner in our relationship?

What is one thing you wish I had said sooner?

What is a promise you hope we always keep?

What is one thing you hope we never outgrow?

If we had a walk-in song as a couple, what would it be?

If we pulled off a heist together, what would your role be?

If we were snowed in for three days, what would we do first?

If we auditioned for a dance competition, what song would we pick?

If we could only share one dessert forever, what would it be?

If we opened a shop together, what would we sell?

If someone made a documentary about us, what would the title be?

If you could relive one of our days, which one would you pick?

If we learned one new language together, which would it be?

If I gave you one free pass to plan anything for us, what would it be?

What is the silliest thing you have done to get my attention?

What is one quirk of mine you find unreasonably attractive?

What is one guilty pleasure you finally admit to me right now?

What is the most embarrassing story your best friend could tell about you?

What is a trend you secretly wish would come back?

What is one value you refuse to give up on?

What is something you feel called to do with your life?

What is one thing a past heartbreak taught you?

What is one thing you want your future family to feel like?

What is something you think makes someone a truly good partner?

What is one thing from your childhood you want to carry forward?

What is something we handle better than you expected?

What is one question you wish I asked you more often?

What is a boundary you are thankful we respect?

What is something you forgave me for that I never noticed?

What is something you are learning to forgive yourself for?

What is one thing we have that no amount of money could buy?

What is the kindest thing you have ever done for someone?

What is something you will always defend?

What is one thing you would fix about the world if it were up to you?

What is your favorite moment in our daily routine together?

What is one habit of mine you find endearing?

What is your favorite thing I have ever cooked or brought you?

What is one thing you do for us that you hope I notice?

What is your favorite way to unwind together after work?

What is one thing you would add to our Sunday routine?

What is your favorite snack to share with me?

What is one thing you wish we did more on ordinary evenings?

What is your favorite place to be next to me?

What is one thing that makes missing me easier when we are apart?

What is the sweetest dream you have had about us?

What is one text from me you saved and still reread?

What is your favorite way for me to greet you?

What is one thing about us that still gives you butterflies?

What is one thing you want to tell me right now that you usually keep to yourself?